A thousand of bad interpratations can be done as much as the conversation is not working. How to make a dialogue works? What is fundamental before arguing is to be quiet. If you are not quiet it is better to get out thhe conversation. Whenever you feel better or really calm, try to bring the matter back. Afterall ir has not ended and must be solved. However it is quite often to find many troubles hidden in a couple history. Men usually are not ready for long and emotional dialogs. Women, i other hand, are not used to lead with straight and minimal dialogs. For both it is good to improve with understanding about the other's weakness so, being compreensive is a good position alwyas even that behavio is damn avoided by you. Every behavior has an explanation. That must have too. And maybe it is not a bad one. Lets be positive. Indeed if it is proofed that the intentions were not very good raised it must be the time to calm down, take a step back and reach a good reflection. I am not so experienced in bad relations. It seems I have no skills to maintain a relation. Many of my relations were so painful and a emotional disaster. Why would I believe the next one will be exactly the opposite? For my well being I must but for my probability math there is no way out.
Whatever is unbearable, I’ll stew my thoughts on words, sometimes they get published in here.
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